What are “conversations” like today when people
differ in view? They are mostly unmitigated disasters, what I call
crap-throwing contests. The goal of these interactions is “I win, you lose,”
with each party throwing as much crap as possible at the other: anger, guilt,
sarcasm, yelling, interrupting, pseudo facts, misrepresentations, outright
lies, name-calling, and so on until one person collapses. These interactions
are no more conversations than water is stone, and quality thinking is
obviously the big loser.
Thinking clearly requires a lot of us. It demands
first of all that we suspend all emotional reactions, which obstruct clarity
and degrade respect, and face the issue on its merits. Having such reactions is
normal; allowing them to intrude into the conversation is a recipe for a bad
outcome. I have already addressed in earlier posts the real unpleasantness
arising when people fail to suspend emotion.
Second, to think clearly we need an attitude toward
conversations that stresses learning, truth, openness, and greater
understanding. Most people I know say they have exactly this attitude, but they
could not be more mistaken. In this post I will talk about the attitude they do
have, one that characterizes their real behavior and which is demonstrably
inimical to quality thinking and respectful conversations. This attitude is
known as “two-valued reasoning,” and considering the damage it does, I view it as
both a moral and a practical “affliction.”
Two-valued reasoning results from a view of the
world defined by categorical opposites. Everything is seen from the standpoint
of what I like or dislike, see as good or bad, approve or disapprove of, support
or condemn. Folks with this standpoint invest huge amounts of emotional energy in
the attitude, such that it becomes a fact of their existence (part of their
ego) and is no longer merely an intellectual aspect of differing views on
something.
People with the two-valued reasoning affliction
generally express themselves with great certainty on anything in which they
have an emotional investment, and their comments are often framed as “either/or”
type propositions. As a consultant to organizations I would often hear comments
like, we are either customer oriented or profit oriented, or we are either
sensitive to employee well being or we are not. As a counselor to couples in
conflict I often hear similar phrasing, as in you can have transparency or
privacy in a relationship, or you can have individuality or community, but in
neither of these cases can you have both.
People with the affliction not only have an
emotional investment in their general view of the world as defined by categorical
opposites, they also have an equally strong attachment to one side or the other
of any “either/or” proposition. In organizations managers who argue that the
firm is either customer oriented or profit oriented have a clear and obvious
attachment to one side of this proposition, defended with great emotion (while anyone
with a different view is often attacked). And the same is true in all “conversations”
in which the parties have differences, no matter what the subject matter. To
describe such interactions as characterized by thinking is absurd.
If quality thinking involves the search for greater
understanding of what are often very complex issues, then two-valued reasoning
does precisely the opposite----it actively diminishes (strenuously denied by
the arguers) the breadth, depth, and sophistication of the interaction.
As an example, at the time of the first Gulf War I
encountered a large number of folks who either supported the war or thought it
crazy and morally wrong to boot. Typically, this difference in view was articulated
by folks on the political right as, “We are going to Iraq to promote democracy,”
and by folks on the left as, “We are going to Iraq solely to get their oil.” Two-valued
reasoning, and its attendant emotional disturbance, characterized both of these
views in any conversation. Folks with the affliction tend to describe very complex
situations (like the Gulf War) in such simplistic terms that they border on
child-like. They use a pre-existing litany of statements that they accept at face
value (if I like it, it must be right) and trot out any time they encounter
someone whose views differ from theirs. It’s very difficult to give the name
thinking to this.
An additional unpleasant outcome to interacting with
those using two-valued reasoning is the impossibility of engaging with them in
a productive and respectful way. Since their view is certain, backed up with
big emotion, any alternative views cannot be allowed to exist. Whether those
alternative views have any merit is of zero importance. What is of utmost
importance is that those views be destroyed. So, if you differ from me you are
by definition wrong, and often morally corrupt as well. The current political
scene gives ample evidence of the prevalence of two-valued reasoning and the
accompanying inability to deal openly and respectfully with those who differ.
The great tragedy of self deception: I have exposed
the two-valued reasoning idea to some folks and they believe it has
considerable value, and that it does describe what they and others they know
have experienced. Sadly, these same individuals will not hesitate to immediately
trash, with typical two-valued reasoning, those who differ from them. Bertrand
Russell expressed this unfortunate state neatly:
Every
man, wherever he goes, is encompassed by a cloud of comforting
Convictions,
which move with him like flies on a summer day.
Failure to subject our convictions to critical
analysis ensures two-valued reasoning will prevail, and that we and our society
will continue to see ever greater hostility and irrationality among people of
different views.
The first “problem” with complaints of “two-valued reasoning” is that it is, in itself, judgmental. Which is the real position being taken by “two-valued reasoning”.
ReplyDeleteThe second is that individuals who present two-valued “reasoning”, at face value might think they are being ‘logical’ when they are, in fact are just trying to impose, through more emotion than logic, their point of view.
Dream Hampton, a cultural critic, said “Never waste time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you”. Are people who resort to black or white reasoning trying to be logical? Are they trying to persuade or trying to intimidate? “You are with us or against us” needs to be recognized as just intimidation.
Finally, to place “two-valued reasoning” in the category of ‘Thinking’ does philosophy, thus ‘Logic’ a disservice and should be placed where it belongs in “emotional rants”. And, what logical (read educated here) person takes emotional rants seriously?