Well,
is it? Maybe. It all depends. But first a little about anger in general.
Anger
is a natural human emotion. Part of the “flight or fight” syndrome, it is an
evolutionary response to a very dangerous existence in our distant past. Today
most of us are ambivalent about anger. Sometimes we see it as damaging, and
sometimes understandable, even helpful. But at its base, most anger is about
resistance to the way things are going or others are acting.
A
student whose self-directed anger for doing poorly on an exam could spark her
improvement. But if that anger causes only to enduring self-recrimination, then
it is damaging. Anger causing emotional or physical abuse is clearly very bad.
But anger arising from an insult or wrong we have experienced is
understandable. As will that coming from a terrible shock, perhaps an auto
injury to a spouse. But it is less understandable if we dwell endlessly on the
trouble, or lash out uncontrollably at others.
Regardless
of the reason for anger, it is very dangerous if ungoverned or not properly
directed. Some even think it is completely unhelpful, as Thich Nhat Hanh
implies, “Anger is the energy people use in order to act. But when you are
angry, you are not lucid, and you might do wrong things. That is why compassion
is a better energy.” Doing wrong things means more than making poor decisions,
important though that is. It is also about the harm we do to others when we are
not in control of our emotions or actions.
Righteous
anger is a bit different from “everyday” anger. It implies a moral need to
correct something wrong, evil, unfair. In religious terms, God’s anger---think
Sodom and Gomorrah---is always righteous, involving punishment for sins. While
we can use the term in a lot of situations, it is often applied to a perceived worthy
cause, perhaps a social justice issue. Some argue that righteous anger is
needed because of the seriousness of the injustice or wrong.
But
Buddhism suggests not, as Alan Wallace says in his fine book, Tibetan Buddhism From the Ground Up:
“Righteous hatred” is in
the same category as “righteous cancer” or “righteous tuberculosis.” All of
them are absurd concepts. This does not mean that one should never take action
against aggression or injustice! Instead, one should try to develop an inner
calmness and insight to deal with these situations in an appropriate way. We
all know that anger and aggression give rise to anger and aggression.
While
Wallace uses “righteous hatred,” it is easy to apply to anger, a lesser form of
emotional upset. Having a righteous cause is one thing, and often a very good
thing. Seeing ourselves as being righteous and acting righteously in relation
to that cause may be very different. Self-righteousness, the sense of moral
superiority, can lead to harmful expressions of anger, often reciprocated, as
Wallace suggests. The anger is justified by the positive nature of the goal and
the “moral backwardness” of those others who cannot see as we do. Being
completely right and energized by anger, the self-righteous may well lack
humility, undermining compassion and respect.
Further,
constant and unhealthy focusing on the perceived wrong or injustice may cause
the righteous anger to become endless and self-justifying, feeding on itself
and growing. This can be exacerbated by our becoming attached to both the idea
of righteous anger and to the anger itself. Worse, the anger may be seen as the
cohesiveness binding a focused group together. Insufficient anger may be seen
by group members as a weak commitment to the goal. Outrage easily becomes a
virtue, a goal in and of itself---a dangerous condition for both group members
and outsiders. For some, righteousness is like an addiction, needing to be fed
often with anger and outrage. Aldous Huxley saw the danger: “To be able to
destroy with good conscience, to be able to behave badly and call your bad
behavior ‘righteous indignation’ is the height of psychological luxury, the
most delicious of moral treats.”
So,
what is my answer to the title question? I believe that all anger, including
righteous anger, is harmful. Why is anger necessary to right a social wrong?
Can we not see an injustice and act calmly, if determinedly, on that? Wallace
counsels us to acquire “inner calmness and insight” when confronted such a
challenge. Some may argue that righteous anger energizes them. Fine. Except
that when the energizing force has done its job (moving them to helpful
action), the hostile emotion may stay in the person’s repertoire of emoting and
acting. Naturally, the anger is visited upon those seen as perpetrators of the
wrong, or upon those who do not agree about the wrong or the methods to deal
with it.
Martin
Luther King, Jr, said, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do
that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” His life was
dedicated to overcoming enormous hate-filled obstacles and people, to changing
society for the good. His impact, even today, is immeasurable. Did he rage
against the horrors of racial injustice and those who perpetrated it, a
righteous cause if ever there was one? No, he did not. He approached everything
and everyone with peace and non-violence. He understood, as those captured by
righteous anger may not, that like darkness and hate, anger begets only anger. His
lack of anger certainly did not enervate or incapacitate him, nor did it keep
him from accomplishing great things.
Someone
once posed a dilemma scenario for The Dalai Lama, a man as committed to
non-violence as anyone. He is in a hut meditating. A man enters who wants to
harm him, perhaps even kill him. The Dalai Lama happens to have a pistol (I
love that, but it’s only a scenario). The question is posed, “Your Holiness,
what would you do?” As he was being attacked, the Dalai Lama says he would
remain calm and shoot the man in the leg, and then go bandage his wound. Anger
is not needed even to save his life; he is hardly paralyzed without it.
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