In spite of my title, opinions are not completely bad. We
all have them and they are needed. But as with many things in life, opinions
are a double-edged sword. In this blog I will address the less desirable side
of opinions.
Most of us believe that we think objectively, but this is
honored more in the breach than the practice, and the reason is often opinions.
Consider two contentious issues about which most people have strongly held
opinions without a single actual fact: human-caused climate change and the
minimum wage. Very few of us have the slightest understanding of the scientific
models used on either side of both of these issues. We certainly do not
understand why one model is more valid than another. We accept one side or the
other because of a pre-existing disposition. I believe (or do not believe) that
the minimum wage is beneficial for workers and society because I prefer that
view, not because I have definitive, supportive facts. It is my opinion.
We all have authorities we rely on to guide us in complex
situations which we cannot understand. True enough. But we still make a choice
of which authorities to rely on, and that choice is itself a function of the
way we want the world to work, or for it to be. It is a subjective choice, and
that opinion has nothing necessarily to do with objective reality. The
authorities we have chosen to put our faith in (and it really is faith) could
be dead wrong and we would never know it. Nor would that matter in many cases.
Studies show that people with strong beliefs that are objectively incorrect and
who are presented with the correct information, will not only reject the latter
out of hand, but actually harden into their original incorrect view.
Making this matter of authorities more complicated yet is
that those experts themselves are prone to select data for their models that
appeal to their already existing biases. Two archaeologists can look at the
same set of humanoid bones and come to different conclusions as to what they
represent. Part of these interpretations is due to their academic and
experiential focus, and part will be due to their preferences, or opinions. These
account for the sometimes very unpleasant, often viciously ad hominem, fights
among academics, none of which help solve anything.
And this leads to perhaps the most troubling aspect of
opinions. We take them very seriously, as though the mere fact that we hold
them is itself prima facie evidence of their correctness. Having “decided” our
opinions are correct, and having infused the latter with strong emotion, any
contrary information must be destroyed. The merging of our opinion as
established fact, and its unverified correctness, with very strong emotion
means the death of inquiry and objective thought. This explains the often
substantial level of hostility that people experience when their opinions cross,
a regrettable every-day happening. Recall any interaction between two people on
opposite sides of the minimum wage issue---usually very unpleasant and not at
all uplifting.
But what if one person’s opinion is factually correct?
Surely that matters? In the absence of an emergency, it matters little on the
positive side and very likely a lot on the negative side. The problem is not
the actual correctness, but the manner in which the person presents his
opinion. If both are playing fair and respectful, and not allowing emotional needs
to win, etc., to overcome the conversation, things can go rather well. If one
or both people needs to be right or to prevail, then the interaction will be
characterized by unpleasant and disrespectful emotional conflict. Thinking in
such situations is retarded, and a deeper understanding of the issue is
sacrificed.
It is clear that holding an opinion simply because it
makes us feel good or because we need it (and ourselves) to be right is
anathema to thinking. People holding their opinions in a death grip and
attempting to overwhelm others with those opinions are acting from pure
emotion. Thinking is not part of this scenario, even though the opinions’ articulation
is often accompanied by supposedly supportive data, mostly in the form of facts
or pseudo-facts. The goal in using such facts is not to have an open and
expansive conversation, but to overwhelm the other person. In order to save internal
“face,” people imagine that such supportive elements are evidence of their
thinking prowess, but their emotive foundation is completely ignored. And, once
aroused, the emotions must win.
If we are going to have opinions, and this is a normal
thing, we had best hold them very lightly, as we would a butterfly that landed
on our hand. We are not really holding the butterfly, only giving it a place to
rest. We do not wish to control the butterfly and we do not desire that it
remain. It is natural that it comes, stays a while, and then leaves. That is
how we should treat our opinions, as mere concepts that may be dispensed with
easily.
Nice as this idea sounds, achieving this state demands
much of us---emotional and intellectual fearlessness, an openness to the new,
and the desire for a deeper understanding of the world. Many people think they
have these characteristics. Sadly for them and for those around them….
Taoist literature offers wisdom on the issue:
When nothing is left to argue with
and there is nothing to oppose,
you will find yourself at peace
and in harmony with all things.
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