What About Relativism?

For nearly 50 years I have been hearing the phrase, “everything is relative,” usefully applied in many situations, but sometimes applied in contexts that puzzled me. To think more clearly, and to better understand our world and our connection with others, we should look into the degree to which this statement is true.

If we are talking about Einstein’s theories of relativity we are on safe ground. But what the great scientist meant has nothing to do with what we can describe today as relativism. Einstein’s view in his General Theory was, putting it very simply, that there is no absolute motion---a very specific application of the concept. And, interestingly, he was quite disturbed when, in the 1920’s, “…the belief began to circulate, for the first time at the popular level, that there were no longer any absolutes: of time and space, of good and evil, of knowledge, above all of value.” (Modern Times, Paul Johnson). More on this in the next post.

What exactly is relativism? First, it is the belief that anything---such as beauty, morality, meaning, and even taste---is dependent on its particular standpoint. What I think is beautiful you may see as bland or ugly. I look upon your house as unclean and my own as pristine, while a third observer may easily see mine as filthy. All humans, regardless of culture or country, bring different views to many things, from animal sacrifice to drug use. Even identical twins can have differing perceptions. Divergent views are natural and part of being human, and they are clearly relative to one’s view of the world.

Second, relativism denies that a particular viewpoint is better than another. Since our views are relative to our unique personal world, the relativist reasonably asks how one view can be better  than another. How can one be more correct or valuable? Relativism says there are no ultimate values or moral systems that apply to all humans. And some relativists will also argue there is neither right nor wrong in any overriding sense applicable to all people, everywhere.

It is easy to see that relativism has wide-ranging validity. It is most, and often irritatingly, evident when we encounter people whose views are different from ours, something that happens constantly throughout our lives. Consider the following words (of thousands): cloudy, energetic, open-minded, fair, and low, none of which has an absolute definition. If we look at the word “low,” we see that it is clearly relative to something else---something that is high. What is low to me may be high to you. Or, consider the divergent opinions people have in areas such as politics, education, or religion. Each person’s view is relativistic in that how words or concepts are defined and used are subjective determinations that each person makes based on his/her perception of the world. Think about how much room for interpretation exists for words like equality, justice, and love.

Understanding that people have different perspectives is very important for everyday functioning. Being able to appreciate where another is coming from, even if we disagree, is vital to successful connections with that person. Many disagreements involve perceptual differences that require us to think clearly and act helpfully. Connecting well with others in such situations obviously involves an appreciation of relativism because we have all experienced people whose views or values are so rigid that there is no room for useful discussion or accommodation---my way or the highway, a view that is clearly harmful to interpersonal relations.

Compassion in the broad sense requires that we accept that others see the world differently than we do. But more than accept, it asks that we ensure our differences with them are not carried out disrespectfully. If we fail in that, even people who understand and operate from a strong relativistic view may well behave inappropriately.

Most conversations start out with an exchange of viewpoints. Regrettably, most of them never get beyond this. Obviously, a quality conversation must begin with us accepting and embracing the relativism of our differing views. Enacting this view means that both the issue and the conflicting parties are uplifted because they have done two important things. They have:

·       Rejected any personal need to win or prevail over the other.

·       They use inquiry as a prime method of developing greater understanding of the issue and the person presenting it.

Having extolled the importance of relativism in this post, I plan to look at some of relativism’s challenges in the next one.

Opinions Obstruct Thinking

In spite of my title, opinions are not completely bad. We all have them and they are needed. But as with many things in life, opinions are a double-edged sword. In this blog I will address the less desirable side of opinions.

Most of us believe that we think objectively, but this is honored more in the breach than the practice, and the reason is often opinions. Consider two contentious issues about which most people have strongly held opinions without a single actual fact: human-caused climate change and the minimum wage. Very few of us have the slightest understanding of the scientific models used on either side of both of these issues. We certainly do not understand why one model is more valid than another. We accept one side or the other because of a pre-existing disposition. I believe (or do not believe) that the minimum wage is beneficial for workers and society because I prefer that view, not because I have definitive, supportive facts. It is my opinion.

We all have authorities we rely on to guide us in complex situations which we cannot understand. True enough. But we still make a choice of which authorities to rely on, and that choice is itself a function of the way we want the world to work, or for it to be. It is a subjective choice, and that opinion has nothing necessarily to do with objective reality. The authorities we have chosen to put our faith in (and it really is faith) could be dead wrong and we would never know it. Nor would that matter in many cases. Studies show that people with strong beliefs that are objectively incorrect and who are presented with the correct information, will not only reject the latter out of hand, but actually harden into their original incorrect view.

Making this matter of authorities more complicated yet is that those experts themselves are prone to select data for their models that appeal to their already existing biases. Two archaeologists can look at the same set of humanoid bones and come to different conclusions as to what they represent. Part of these interpretations is due to their academic and experiential focus, and part will be due to their preferences, or opinions. These account for the sometimes very unpleasant, often viciously ad hominem, fights among academics, none of which help solve anything.

And this leads to perhaps the most troubling aspect of opinions. We take them very seriously, as though the mere fact that we hold them is itself prima facie evidence of their correctness. Having “decided” our opinions are correct, and having infused the latter with strong emotion, any contrary information must be destroyed. The merging of our opinion as established fact, and its unverified correctness, with very strong emotion means the death of inquiry and objective thought. This explains the often substantial level of hostility that people experience when their opinions cross, a regrettable every-day happening. Recall any interaction between two people on opposite sides of the minimum wage issue---usually very unpleasant and not at all uplifting.

But what if one person’s opinion is factually correct? Surely that matters? In the absence of an emergency, it matters little on the positive side and very likely a lot on the negative side. The problem is not the actual correctness, but the manner in which the person presents his opinion. If both are playing fair and respectful, and not allowing emotional needs to win, etc., to overcome the conversation, things can go rather well. If one or both people needs to be right or to prevail, then the interaction will be characterized by unpleasant and disrespectful emotional conflict. Thinking in such situations is retarded, and a deeper understanding of the issue is sacrificed.

It is clear that holding an opinion simply because it makes us feel good or because we need it (and ourselves) to be right is anathema to thinking. People holding their opinions in a death grip and attempting to overwhelm others with those opinions are acting from pure emotion. Thinking is not part of this scenario, even though the opinions’ articulation is often accompanied by supposedly supportive data, mostly in the form of facts or pseudo-facts. The goal in using such facts is not to have an open and expansive conversation, but to overwhelm the other person. In order to save internal “face,” people imagine that such supportive elements are evidence of their thinking prowess, but their emotive foundation is completely ignored. And, once aroused, the emotions must win.

If we are going to have opinions, and this is a normal thing, we had best hold them very lightly, as we would a butterfly that landed on our hand. We are not really holding the butterfly, only giving it a place to rest. We do not wish to control the butterfly and we do not desire that it remain. It is natural that it comes, stays a while, and then leaves. That is how we should treat our opinions, as mere concepts that may be dispensed with easily.

Nice as this idea sounds, achieving this state demands much of us---emotional and intellectual fearlessness, an openness to the new, and the desire for a deeper understanding of the world. Many people think they have these characteristics. Sadly for them and for those around them….

Taoist literature offers wisdom on the issue:

            When nothing is left to argue with

            and there is nothing to oppose,

            you will find yourself at peace

            and in harmony with all things.

Vulnerability Creates Invulnerability

I can hear the shouts now. We all know that opposites cannot co-exist, so what kind of nonsense is this? And certainly one opposite cannot arise out of another! More nonsense. And what could such ideas have to do with thinking, anyhow?

In my usual way of thinking, I contend that at one level these concerns are valid and at another, more sophisticated level, they are not. Further, appreciating the latter enables us to achieve a higher state of emotional well being. And, lastly, I also believe that understanding the more subtle level is at least an indirect aid to our thinking.

Whether these two words and the concepts they represent can exist together depends not on any superficial sense of incompatible opposition, but on how the words are used. We all understand what invulnerability means---we are armored-up and cannot be harmed. Simple and true enough. None of us wants to be or be seen as vulnerable, and for good reason. If we are vulnerable to physical attack, for example, we will naturally experience fear and a strong desire to avoid the challenges, creating anxiety.

But vulnerability is not limited to the physical. We may fear emotional vulnerability, which can be a normal response. But it may be much more threatening if it is the result of a person’s unbalanced inner state. As an internal condition, the vulnerability is present all the time, just waiting for an excuse to show up. And it shows up most often and most dramatically when we are under stress.

For much of my life the big vulnerability was shame, the idea that others would find out who I really was as opposed to the carefully (and entirely unconsciously) crafted image that I wanted to portray. I was under stress nearly all the time trying to maintain this fiction. My vulnerability arose because at some level I sensed that if someone found out “who I really was” they would dismiss me or dislike me, and I would be shamed. This had to be concealed. If someone asked me how business was going, as just one example, and it was not going well, I would assure them all was fine. I was not consciously lying---I believed exactly what I was saying, all to reinforce the story I told myself that I really was worthy, a view that in my deepest recesses I knew to be false.

My vulnerability came from a weak sense of myself that I could not let anyone see, a characteristic that, like it or not, nearly all of us share. This is dysfunctional vulnerability because, in my case, it was built on a great fear causing me to try and hide aspects of myself that desperately needed exposure and the strong light of day for emotional health. Most people think they are immune from such fears, and from the distortions that follow from them, but that is only because the fears are lodged deep in the unconscious. Our powerful inner needs to protect the false stories must go unacknowledged. My particular need was to avoid shame, but there are many others, such as the need to control, to be right, to win, to be perfect, to be loved, and so forth. These are all large vulnerabilities that need feeding, but which can never be fed enough to resolve them.

From these needs and fears we construct a reality that does not exist, usually a set of stories that give us the illusion of feeling and looking just fine. The stories enable us to keep these troubling aspects below conscious level so they are deniable, which we imagine allows us to avoid vulnerability. But in trying to make ourselves invulnerable by hiding who we are, and by our protective stories and mis-representations, we actually produce the opposite outcome.

The effort to create invulnerability results in unhealthy vulnerability.

Adding to the challenge is the fact that our inner selves “know” that we have failed to achieve invulnerability, fueling the firing of anxiety. Perhaps even worse is the fact that our real vulnerability is obvious to others because they can often see the inconsistency between who we are portraying ourselves to be and how we act, which is who we really are.

But there is a positive side to vulnerability. One cannot love and be loved without some emotional vulnerability, without taking a chance on love or affection or friendship. At some point, we have to say, “I love you,” and hope for a good outcome. That vulnerability is necessary for a healthy emotional life. Vulnerability also has a normal situational aspect. The death of a loved one or the loss of a job may leave us temporarily emotionally vulnerable. Healthy people will recover over time from these losses.

In the positive and most healthy sense, vulnerability means openness and fearlessness, and a willingness to give up the hold that our fears and stories have on us. We see ourselves as we really are and have no apprehension about letting others see this, including our mistakes or weaknesses. Paradoxically, it is this attitude that creates invulnerability. If we have no weak ego to defend, no false story to protect, openness is easy. We have no armor, and need none, and yet we are invulnerable. With nothing to shield from critical eyes---and there are plenty of those---we have nothing to fear because no one can hurt us. We see that wonderful things are gained from transparency. Others will respect us much more for telling the truth about who we are, and our relationships with them will be improved immeasurably as they sense the demise of our earlier falseness. But perhaps most importantly, we will be more emotionally healthy as the fear of being exposed disappears. A great weight is lifted from us as the emotional energy used to maintain the illusions is no longer needed, allowing us to deal with the world and its challenges with greater integrity.

So, invulnerability arises out of vulnerability.

Finally, how is thinking enhanced in all this? Simple---as we adopt openness and fearlessness, our inner clarity increases and the need to protect our opinions and views recedes. Since strongly held opinions can be anathema to objective thought, reducing the grip our opinions have on us frees us to look at things as they really are rather than as how we want them to be. The adverse impact of opinions on thinking is so important that I will address this challenge in the next post.

The Heart Sutra, Compassion and Thought

The Heart Sutra is one of the most important pieces of Buddhist literature. In a relatively short space it conveys the critical idea that enlightenment requires that our skandhas be empty. The Buddha taught that an individual is made up of a combination of five skandhas---form, sensation, perception, mental formulations, and consciousness. In very simple terms, they may be seen collectively as representing our ego. Once the latter has been “destroyed,” enlightenment is possible and compassion may flourish.

Compassion is often seen as a sensation of concern about those in need, which it certainly is. But it is much more than that. In simple terms again, compassion is a comprehensive sense of appreciation of and concern for the well-being all people at all times. They do not have to be in need for this sense to exist. In fact, if that is the only time it is manifest, we are likely to misbehave. The reason is our normal responses to conflict, situations in which others disagree with us or appear to obstruct a goal we have. Conflict often brings out the worst in us as we attempt to force the universe, in the form of the human obstacle in front of us, to do as we wish. That usually means unpleasantness in the form of hostile emotions coupled with facts, pseudo-facts, misrepresentations, and outright lies. We will do anything to prevail in this contest, because we live in fear that what we want we may not get. Compassion is absent.

Back to the Sutra. Buddhist masters teach that as the ego becomes less and less a force (as its components move toward “destruction”), compassion increases. A person may not believe the Buddhist masters or stories about the challenging role of our egos. But it is clear that we cannot have much compassion when our ego is active, when the self is the main focus. Over the last 30 years or so we have seen considerable growth in narcissistic behavior---“this is all about me.” For many people, instead of the ego receding, it has actually grown to the point where their needs prevail over everything and everyone in all circumstances. Naturally, the more focus on me, the less on you. Morality, fairness, and appropriateness are irrelevant. Is it any wonder then that compassion has also diminished and incivility increased?

Now to thinking. In the grip of narcissism or fear of loss we act out automatically to protect our needs and goals, events to which we are often completely oblivious. We are emoting, but not thinking at all. Thinking asks that we attend to incoming information in a fair and objective manner, even (especially) if we do not like it---the essence of intellectual honesty. Selfcenteredness and fear cause us to act in harmful ways towards others, as our needs must prevail no matter what. I am not referring so much to big harm, but mainly to the “little” harms we do day to day when differing with others. Imagining that our view of the world (especially and most damagingly so in political aspects) is correct and the other person’s is wrong practically guarantees the disappearance of compassion and presence of harmful interactions. The need for certainty in our views is the kiss of death to compassion and to constructive thought.

Many people I know, fine folks all, imagine with great sincerity that they are compassionate in the broad sense that I am using it, and that they do in fact think clearly when under interpersonal stress. Sadly, their behavior, often dogmatic and rigid as the need for their views to prevail asserts itself, belies that. Political “discussions” are among the most damaging and useless events I can imagine. Embedded in their litany of belief, people can be very intolerant, often engaging, as I mentioned in the last post, in derogatory labeling of those whose political views differ from theirs. Even if they refrain from this particularly unfortunate brand of anti-compassionateness, they are so convinced of the rightness of their view that they cannot contain their negativity. It now finds its path a in constant and grinding refutation of the other’s views, and absolutely no self-examination of the weaknesses of their own. Their dogmatism goes unquestioned because they have told themselves a (at least partially) false story that they are open-minded, tolerant and compassionate. The story is inviolate because it rests on the ego’s own weakness. If the story is understood as false, the ego "collapses." Fear of that occurring keeps this sad system in place.

We cannot be compassionate until we have given up the need to be right or prevail, and when we have lost the fear that drives us to be certain, to protect and defend our views at all costs. When we can accept difference with equanimity, with no need to attack or defend, we move towards compassion. In my mind the Dalai Lama, to the very limited degree that I understand him, embodies compassion. Imagine a conversation in which I am talking to His Holiness, keeping in mind that he is the world-wide spiritual leader of those following Tibetan Buddhism.

Larry:  I really love all your books and writings and have gained a great deal from them.

DL:      Thank you.

Larry:  However, I think that all this stuff in Tibetan Buddhism is bunk.

DL:      You may be right.

Self-Interest and Labeling

Self-interest is a fascinating topic for me, given as it is often in bad odor with some folks. Yet, self-interest is a necessary component of human existence. Like many other human characteristics, it is neither a purely good thing nor a purely bad thing. Self-interest is most helpfully seen as a continuum, with absolutes at each end. At one end is total self-interest, in which others’ needs are irrelevant. At the other end is total non-self-interest (or total other interest), in which my needs are irrelevant. Nearly all of us are somewhere between the two end points, separated by degrees of difference.

But I am actually doing a disservice to self-interest’s complexity. While we fall at some arbitrarily defined spot on the continuum, we may move around depending on the issues, our age, emotional condition, preferences, etc. One continuum is insufficient to explain the complexities, but the image suffices for understanding that conversing about such a difficult issue demands flexible and open thinking.

Such thinking is tough enough to come by under normal conditions, but things can get very unpleasant when people sense that others have different views. This applies especially because  self-interest is often equated with selfishness, seen by many as even more negative than self-interest. We have a distinct penchant for lauding ourselves and our friends for our moral uprightness, and an opposite penchant for demeaning those who do not think as we do. We may label a person as selfish, and with a word and a flourish we have condemned him completely. Such labeling ignores any differences that are explained in a much more subtle fashion by degrees of separation. But when our need to be right is at stake, in our world we get to do whatever we want---a sad moral failure.

There is also the issue of motives, and the often wrong stories we tell ourselves about how good we are. People who think of themselves as compassionate and sensitive to the feelings and experiences of others, especially those who are troubled, see themselves as unselfish and their motives as positive---not unreasonably. However, they also tend to see those without the same level of other interest as less moral or less humanely sensitive, a bit of moral superiority. It is this hubris, and the need to be right that often goes along with it, that leads us to categorical condemnation, to negative labeling. There is no gray, only good (me) and bad (him). Regardless of complicating factors (recall multiple continua), he is judged as completely uncaring of others, and must be punished. Surely some people are largely selfish, but that is not the issue. When we negatively categorize others we actually demean ourselves and add to the societal challenges of incivility.

And motives are often complicated things. One can have a conscious motive to want to help the disadvantaged, or at least be sensitive to their need for help. But because much of what we think, feel and do arises from our unconscious, a person with a laudable conscious motive may also (not necessarily does) have a less laudable unconscious motive at the same time---wanting to be perceived by others as especially sensitive and morally upright. The problem, as we know, is that the less laudable motive is invisible and thus deniable. This allows the person to feel morally superior and avoid the complications of potential hypocrisy, or at least of a perceived lowered moral condition.

In addition to avoiding hypocrisy, labeling a person as selfish allows the labeler to avoid any thinking. As we know from my earlier blogs, assessments of those deemed selfish, as just one negative labeling example, are driven primarily by emotions, with carefully selected “facts” added later. Labelers also ignore the complications of their own situations, which in the normal human condition are exemplified by degrees of difference in almost everything. Labelers tend to see many aspects of the world in black and white terms---what I have referred to as two-valued reasoning, which is hardly reasoning at all.

Making our society a better and more thoughtful place is certainly a positive goal, especially being sensitive to the challenges facing those in difficulty. Negative labeling accomplishes nothing in this vein. But it does make people more hostile to each other, thereby contributing paradoxically to making our society overall less humane rather than more.

Appreciating the dangers of labeling, particularly regarding selfishness, provides us opportunities for real thinking and conversing. This leads to uplifting conversations which assist us in addressing the misfortunes impacting others, and in making our society overall more compassionate and tolerant.

"I Have No Biases"

This post is an excerpt from my upcoming book on Living Well

“I have no biases” is a statement we often make with complete confidence and certainty, and not a little moral superiority. I told myself this story for years. Many of my good friends do so to this day, not at all aware of how biased we are.

There is great emotional satisfaction in saying and feeling one is unbiased. Besides the sense of being morally upright, it strongly implies being non-judgmental and respectful of all, a nice boost to our fragile egos. True enough if one does in fact happen to be unbiased, but I have never known such a person. In fact, while I have done a lot of hard work on myself, I still maintain many biases, perhaps hundreds, as I think we all do.

The problem is not necessarily having biases, for obviously there are many of no consequence. I prefer the color blue to red, classical music of the Romantic Period to today’s pop, sunny days to cloudy ones, trousers with pleats to those without them, and impressionist to abstract art. That I hold these biases may be irritating to some, but they are clearly inconsequential.

Yet there are ones which are indeed consequential, or at least potentially so. For example, I am biased for Asians’ work ethic, and biased against people whose work ethic is questionable. For good drivers and against poor ones. For people who are resilient and against people who are complainers. For doers and against takers. For strivers and against slackers. For those with open minds and against those with closed minds. And the list goes on.

Some may be disturbed because these examples smack of partiality, favoritism and judgmentalism. The horror may be especially pronounced since I am asserting that it is not just me who has such biases, but that we all have them. Yet the issue is more subtle than a simple and very easy condemnation of what I am expressing. Pretending we have no judgmental biases means we are living in a world of our own creation that  does not exist. Comforting as that may be, the cost is hypocrisy.

One can profess heatedly that one has no such biases, and yet do considerable harm from the falseness of the story. I know a goodly number of people who assert that they do not have any “biases against” anyone or group, that they are tolerant. As it turns out, this view has a unique meaning. It says they are biased for, and treat very respectfully and favorably, folks with whom they agree or whom they like. But they often actively demean and denigrate the very people for whom they should have tolerance: those with whom they most strongly disagree (and are biased against), especially those of the other political party. The story that we are unbiased must be maintained because admitting we are not runs the huge risk of undermining the very carefully crafted positive image we have of our moral superiority. We will have to face our hypocrisy head-on, and that cannot happen.

My consequential biases do look awful. But their existence says nothing about how I actually behave toward people. Certainly if I am not careful I could easily allow my preferences for and against to influence my behavior---for example, playing favorites with those I am biased for and treating badly those I am biased against. But controlling our behavior under challenging conditions is exactly what much of Living Well is all about. As a college teacher, I have felt minor bias against certain students because of how they dressed or the tattoos they sported. Nonetheless, I did not allow that sense to push me into treating them in any way disrespectfully or unfairly.

People may think that we should not have certain biases, but that is yet another defiance of reality. Humans are not perfect. In the end it is not whether we have biases, but whether we act out biases against others in a way that negatively characterizes and demeans them. Or, if we act out biases for others that expresses inappropriate favoritism. Living Wells asks that we accept all human beings as deserving of respect, which is impossible if we condemn them or play favorites. Having biases for and against is normal, but we must be very careful what we do with them. If the well-being of others is part of our life, then respect must be evident for all. Treating others respectfully demands that we acknowledge our biases and act firmly to ensure those do not harm anyone, especially those we disagree with, or who we actively dislike.  

Denying the reality of biases means we fight against reality and our own psyches, using up large amounts of emotional energy trying to maintain a fiction (I am absolutely unbiased!). We spread our inner struggle and upset those around us, loudly proclaiming our righteousness in the midst of our hypocrisy.

When we believe absolutely what we think, particularly about ourselves, we have likely closed our minds to openness and critical thought. Others can see we are living a delusion, but we cannot. We believe we are open, objective, and tolerant when the truth is a very different story. Living Well is impossible under such conditions.

Can Critical Thinking Be Taught?

Let's see if we can put a bit more substance on the thus far rather anemic considerations of critical thinking. Can critical thinking be taught? Well, yes and no. Critical thinking is affected by a goodly number of factors---mostly unconscious---that everyone has to one degree or another, only one of which is the intangible intellectual ability. Consider the following:

•          Built-in brain filtering mechanisms (Confirmation bias)
•          Acquired filtering mechanisms (Republicans/Democrats are bad people; atheists/theists are crazy).
•           Personality factors (Tendency to see the glass half full or half empty; tendency to prefer detail to big picture or the reverse).
•           Emotional drivers (the NEED to be right, to win, to be perfect.)

These aspects determine whether we can think objectively/critically or not. Nearly everyone I know, or have known, imagines that what they think about themselves (I am being objective, I am capable of critical thinking) is how they are. Could not be farther from the truth since they have failed to examine the above elements and deal with them. I am familiar with this as I lived it for many decades. Take the person who violates a principle of intellectual honesty and fails to acknowledge and question his/her own assumptions and biases. Did that happen because he is thinking rationally and openly? Hardly. It happens because he has an emotional agenda to be right, to win, to be admired, or whatever, and that agenda will prevail come what may. All of us rely on assumptions when applying our world view to make sense of the data about the world. And all of us bring various biases to the table. Unfortunately, most deny they have such biases.

Consider Flatland, the book in which a group of people exists in a world having only two dimensions. They are literally unable to see a third dimension. Their language has no place for third dimension aspects, and thus they cannot imagine it, much less think or talk about it. It seems that language and thinking quality are related in a system's sense, with each influencing the other. Imagine a group like the Flatlanders whose language has only two colors: black and white. What nuanced critical thought can you expect of such folks when you ask them evaluate a Van Gogh palette? None. Thus, we can argue that part of critical thinking beyond the vital 4 aspects mentioned above is a largish (will go undefined) vocabulary about the issue in question. This can certainly be taught.

Most people I know have plenty of opinions backed up by nothing more than an emotional certainty they are right or at best by cute anecdotes. Their vocabulary (this can be read as facts as well) is minimal because they choose it to be so, not because they are inherently limited intellectually. Scientists have opinion and bias problems as well: when the walls surrounding the Sphinx were determined by Dr Robert Schoch, a renowned geologist, to have been eroded by water and not wind and sand, the Egyptologists went positively insane, including attacking Schoch with ad hominem “arguments.” Schoch’s information upset terribly their chronology of the pharaohs. Thus, even though they were not geologists, Schoch’s work was rejected, not for any rational reasons, but for pure emotional ones: we don’t like this, so it will have to go away. Years later, and without any apology to Schoch, they are gradually coming around.

Ask a person from the right to rigorously critique Glenn Beck or a person from the left to do the same with regard to Chris Matthews, and they will both look at you like you’re nuts. Their emotional vocabulary does not even permit this information to get in, much less be examined. Essentially, they are like the Flatlanders: what they cannot conceive of cannot be seen. They could no more constructively and energetically critique their boy than they could dis-embowel themselves.

I think that critical thinking can be taught, but that teaching has to happen at two different, albeit connected, levels. The first level deals with relatively simple elements such as how to examine a painting with an eye to distinguishing its positive and negative points based on certain standards of art criticism. Such standards themselves are subject to alteration (recall the rejection that the first Impressionists experienced) as new styles evolve. The same is true in asking a person to constructively critique the quality of an essay, according to generally accepted standards. To some degree, depending on the person's innate intellectual ability (sorry for leaving this undefined), we can teach this critical thinking.

The second level is not at all addressed in universities or elsewhere, although it is the issue upon which critical thinking stands or falls. This gets at the enormously powerful role of our unconscious and its often huge emotional needs---recall the Schoch example. The four critical, primarily unconscious aspects mentioned above will get no appreciation or recognition from the fearful for, as a great mentor once said, referring to me, “Certainty is the last refuge of the fearful.” And we are all afraid, even when we are not consciously aware of it. And, having been there I know what it feels like and what it looks like in others. When fear goes, when ego attachments to being right are gone, then and only then do we have a chance to think critically and objectively. Can this be taught? Absolutely. But only the most courageous have a prayer.